Dear Seniors,
I am working with a service industry as on administration post.The working environment here is totally frustrated.
They given me here more responsibility rather than my administration, they wanted to all work should be carried by me, right now I am handling the admin.Accounting, HR ,front desk,secretarial and so on...
The accountant here in the office, I don't know wht that person having the problem with me. He complain about me to my senor person even if I am doing my job well.He himself sometimes change filing materials and then ask for it to me.
If I am unable to find it out he orders to reopen the all older files and rearrange it. This kind of behavior is not only towards me but also with some other two peoples as we are junior here by age and by experienced.
There is no proper lunch time for ours even do lunch and immediate get back to the work,not allow to go outside the office not to talk with other office employees.
I am so much frustrated here. As I already decided that this is my last month to work with this co. but it's also unable me to wait for end of this month ,because of his behavior. every day he come up with new strategy to tease us, nd we can't do anything. even we can not take action against him as our senior person are supportive to him.
He has more belief on him rather than all of us as he in oder and within his community.
Even the monthly salary should be on 1st of month but he make cheques of our name on 5th and give to us on 10th. why people behave like this I don't understand??. even the calculations on cheq sometimes wrong..he makes himself salary on time.
because of my financial constraint I am working here but I can not bear it more than this it's affect to my health,mind.
Dear professionals plz give some solution over it. Even if I leave this, the girl who newly joined on my post will be defiantly harassed by this.
Plz help me out.....
It's a continuous problem.....PLz PLZ....
From India, Pune
6I am working with a service industry as on administration post.The working environment here is totally frustrated.
They given me here more responsibility rather than my administration, they wanted to all work should be carried by me, right now I am handling the admin.Accounting, HR ,front desk,secretarial and so on...
The accountant here in the office, I don't know wht that person having the problem with me. He complain about me to my senor person even if I am doing my job well.He himself sometimes change filing materials and then ask for it to me.
If I am unable to find it out he orders to reopen the all older files and rearrange it. This kind of behavior is not only towards me but also with some other two peoples as we are junior here by age and by experienced.
There is no proper lunch time for ours even do lunch and immediate get back to the work,not allow to go outside the office not to talk with other office employees.
I am so much frustrated here. As I already decided that this is my last month to work with this co. but it's also unable me to wait for end of this month ,because of his behavior. every day he come up with new strategy to tease us, nd we can't do anything. even we can not take action against him as our senior person are supportive to him.
He has more belief on him rather than all of us as he in oder and within his community.
Even the monthly salary should be on 1st of month but he make cheques of our name on 5th and give to us on 10th. why people behave like this I don't understand??. even the calculations on cheq sometimes wrong..he makes himself salary on time.
because of my financial constraint I am working here but I can not bear it more than this it's affect to my health,mind.
Dear professionals plz give some solution over it. Even if I leave this, the girl who newly joined on my post will be defiantly harassed by this.
Plz help me out.....
It's a continuous problem.....PLz PLZ....
From India, Pune
Hey Suchita have read your problem and found that acciunt guy and your senior is harrassing you.........they want you to let down.bt dont so that.if you are right and doing yr work properly den talk with the main person in yr office ..as u r telling that yr senior is also supporting that account person .then go with him and ask him why he is doing so and ask directly wat's d problem and make clarifications.........and do find another job without leaving yr present job and u can get it easily i think wh u will leave d job yr head will come to know yr value.......and learn to say d things on their face......Best Of Luck.....
From India, Ahmadabad
From India, Ahmadabad
Hi, Suchita, We are looking for people to work in the same profile as you are. You can call on 9850209070 for further details or mail your CV. Regards Sanjay Naidu
If u r looking for a change, is it really required? I think you should speak to seniors once>
From India, Pune
From India, Pune
Hi Suchita
Its sad and unfortunate the situation you are enduring in your office. There are people like that “account guy” you mention in your post, you have to learn to deal with such nasty elements, as you may find many such in your career and on your way of life. Be strong and learn to work around this situations,
Focus on your job responsibilities, KRAs and learning involved in your work. Its famously said- “ love your job, not your company”
Keep your reports, up to date and always maintain a separate set of records you submit for your personal reference, in case any discrepancy is raised you can refer to your work.
Trust no one verbally in the office, when it comes to formal and official communication, always maintain communication on paper, like on mail or in writing.
Maintain your calm composure during times when you are teased, irritated or provoked over anything, remember some people are of sadist nature, they enjoy the reactions from people when troubled.
Always remember no one can insult you, without your permission, your calm composure in stressful times will present you very matured and strong, this will irritate the trouble maker.
Always maintain records and communication systematically, you can inform higher authorities of the mistakes in accounting or payroll or any matter affecting your employment, and present it in a professional, neutral and complete way, without letting any personal anguish, frustration or ego.
Summarize and present your work and its value to the management, decision makers etc.
If its still too toxic to work, be patient, be calm and seek another opportunity, however, do not carry forward any grudge, bad memories or opinions to new workplace.
Do not discuss any negative experiences you faced in the company during interviews with prospective employers.
Calm down and enjoy life.
From Kuwait, Salmiya
Its sad and unfortunate the situation you are enduring in your office. There are people like that “account guy” you mention in your post, you have to learn to deal with such nasty elements, as you may find many such in your career and on your way of life. Be strong and learn to work around this situations,
Focus on your job responsibilities, KRAs and learning involved in your work. Its famously said- “ love your job, not your company”
Keep your reports, up to date and always maintain a separate set of records you submit for your personal reference, in case any discrepancy is raised you can refer to your work.
Trust no one verbally in the office, when it comes to formal and official communication, always maintain communication on paper, like on mail or in writing.
Maintain your calm composure during times when you are teased, irritated or provoked over anything, remember some people are of sadist nature, they enjoy the reactions from people when troubled.
Always remember no one can insult you, without your permission, your calm composure in stressful times will present you very matured and strong, this will irritate the trouble maker.
Always maintain records and communication systematically, you can inform higher authorities of the mistakes in accounting or payroll or any matter affecting your employment, and present it in a professional, neutral and complete way, without letting any personal anguish, frustration or ego.
Summarize and present your work and its value to the management, decision makers etc.
If its still too toxic to work, be patient, be calm and seek another opportunity, however, do not carry forward any grudge, bad memories or opinions to new workplace.
Do not discuss any negative experiences you faced in the company during interviews with prospective employers.
Calm down and enjoy life.
From Kuwait, Salmiya
"if you don`t come across the problems it means u r on wrong way " says Mr. Albert Einstein......... brass urself to deal with problems, do u need anything more?
From India, Indore
From India, Indore
Dea Suchitra,
Firstly , give him a chance and ask why he is doing so, in case he reverts in a decent way and replies that he is irritated or wants to tease you(if he confess) ,then ask him not to do that and ask him to stop it immediately.
Make it a short conversation and dont talk to him much .
In second case he doesn't replies to you and behaves in the same way , then you do one thing , find out who is the management ? and put it directly to them.Dont get scared and if u r talented u will get a job may be far or lil less salary or may be better one but be confident you will get one But do not tolerate such a thing.
In third case give me your managements number and who the senior authority there.I will make sure things will be communicated to him nicely.
Certainly this is not a better place to work , but someone else will suffer the same problem if you will leave so
Make a proper complaint regarding that.
Rgds,
Dipti
From China, Beijing
Firstly , give him a chance and ask why he is doing so, in case he reverts in a decent way and replies that he is irritated or wants to tease you(if he confess) ,then ask him not to do that and ask him to stop it immediately.
Make it a short conversation and dont talk to him much .
In second case he doesn't replies to you and behaves in the same way , then you do one thing , find out who is the management ? and put it directly to them.Dont get scared and if u r talented u will get a job may be far or lil less salary or may be better one but be confident you will get one But do not tolerate such a thing.
In third case give me your managements number and who the senior authority there.I will make sure things will be communicated to him nicely.
Certainly this is not a better place to work , but someone else will suffer the same problem if you will leave so
Make a proper complaint regarding that.
Rgds,
Dipti
From China, Beijing
Sucheta,
Dipti and Mr. Hussain Zulfikar have suggested canny ways to deal with your problem. I am also of the same view. But to support you, hereby attaching the two things which shows that the situation can be handled on our own. observe the picture and then read the PDF file calmly. I hope you will get a new insight.
Kedar
From India, Nasik
Dipti and Mr. Hussain Zulfikar have suggested canny ways to deal with your problem. I am also of the same view. But to support you, hereby attaching the two things which shows that the situation can be handled on our own. observe the picture and then read the PDF file calmly. I hope you will get a new insight.
Kedar
From India, Nasik
HI Kedar
Hilarious !! ..That was truly a funny reality .. but why management, its life and our unlimited desires which is driving us crazy. always running behind the elusive carrot (Wealth, Car, House, Foreign Vacation etc etc )
there is famous saying : "Aagah Apni Maut se Koi Bashar Nahi... Samaan hai So Baras ka Pal ki Khabar Nahi"
And the poem is very inspiring and self assuring too.
Best Wishes
From Kuwait, Salmiya
Hilarious !! ..That was truly a funny reality .. but why management, its life and our unlimited desires which is driving us crazy. always running behind the elusive carrot (Wealth, Car, House, Foreign Vacation etc etc )
there is famous saying : "Aagah Apni Maut se Koi Bashar Nahi... Samaan hai So Baras ka Pal ki Khabar Nahi"
And the poem is very inspiring and self assuring too.
Best Wishes
From Kuwait, Salmiya
so many Suchitas on earth!!... and oh hell, so many such "Accounts Guys" too on earth!!... financial constraints and family problems....a girl wants to work... the man will not allow...has he some ulterior motives? or is he a simple sadist..? ms.suchita, u r not alone..we hv come across so many stories here... there was lot of exchange under Corporate challenges faced by women... read them.. take heart..have courage..face the world.. do not expect a bed of roses... walk on the path of thorns ..bleed but do not beg...work hard.. come above the level... one or two from pune are assuring help to u.. approach them...but still u may land in a world of "such account babus" u may change the place but people might be the same... learn to live as a woman ...develop killer instinct... learn to kick not to lick.... live yr life with courage....Pray and believe in God....Only God....
From India, Bangalore
From India, Bangalore
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