PF transfer - have to cancel my request and in portal status shows rejected by the employer

Respected Sir, I have worked with XYZ company and I have left the company before 3 years. I want to withdraw my pf amount. I applied on EPFO online portal but mistaken I have given a transfer request, I contact the concerned person he told me to cancel on your end and send mail to the company stating that I want to cancel my request. I have to cancel my request and in portal status shows rejected by the employer.
Now again I am trying to withdraw but the concerned person said to give the fresh request for transfer because now u have to transfer your pf with an existing company and then withdraw the pf amount. One and a half months have passed but I have not received any mail from my company. Please guide me for further process.

@Deepali
mere try to withdraw, transfer words can not fetch proper reply, share your present status viz you are employed with any company and contributing pf or not? if yes then withdrawal settlement is not possible, but you have to opt for transfer only
withdrawal is possible only if the member is unemployed for more than 2 months