I have been charged with the false sexual harassment by my female manager.
Below are the 2 incidents on which I have been alleged.
Case 1: 11 months ago, I took her inside a meeting room (located at center of floor, having transperent glass doors in the mid day in presence of almost 60-70 employees around to discuss work related issues. I “locked” the door to avoid any disturbance to fellow team mates sitting just outside the door. Intent behind locking the door was to avoid any loud noise reaching outside the meeting room if we get in to any arguments because she is very loud and has no manners. I didn’t want anyone to make fun of that meeting. After that meeting, she went out normally and smiling.
The very same day, I thanked her on the whatsapp for understanding the issues and on which “she responded with a smiley”. I have the screenshots of that.
Here, charges were dropped on me because of the locking the door.
Case 2: Recently, me and my new male manager had a huge fight. In that argument, I abused him. I admit it is not ethical & should not be in place. He has no manners at all and suppress everyone and that day he yelled at me in front of other team members which was an abuse and harassment for me and that’s where the fight started. The female manager I wrote about above has charged me with sexual harassment as I abused in front of her. She was present there & witnessing the entire scenario with her own consent/awareness. I didn’t say anything to her.
The HR called me spontaneously few days back and started threatening me on the name of police, court, metoo movement and asked me to write a statement saying that I understand I have been alleged with sexual harassment charges and asked to apologise for the abuse thing. At that time, due to the way they were talking to me, I could not understand anything and did what they said.
This is a conspiracy to fire me as I never bowed down in front of this corrupt managers.
Please suggest what should I do.
My team members suggested to write an email with whatsapp screenshots about all this to the higher management from both team and HR end and include all the team members and ask the team about if they felt anything like that as they were there. Also, to ask for CCTV footage for that day.
A few team members are willing to respond on the email telling the truth which is against the female manager.
Is this the right way? Please suggest.
Below are the 2 incidents on which I have been alleged.
Case 1: 11 months ago, I took her inside a meeting room (located at center of floor, having transperent glass doors in the mid day in presence of almost 60-70 employees around to discuss work related issues. I “locked” the door to avoid any disturbance to fellow team mates sitting just outside the door. Intent behind locking the door was to avoid any loud noise reaching outside the meeting room if we get in to any arguments because she is very loud and has no manners. I didn’t want anyone to make fun of that meeting. After that meeting, she went out normally and smiling.
The very same day, I thanked her on the whatsapp for understanding the issues and on which “she responded with a smiley”. I have the screenshots of that.
Here, charges were dropped on me because of the locking the door.
Case 2: Recently, me and my new male manager had a huge fight. In that argument, I abused him. I admit it is not ethical & should not be in place. He has no manners at all and suppress everyone and that day he yelled at me in front of other team members which was an abuse and harassment for me and that’s where the fight started. The female manager I wrote about above has charged me with sexual harassment as I abused in front of her. She was present there & witnessing the entire scenario with her own consent/awareness. I didn’t say anything to her.
The HR called me spontaneously few days back and started threatening me on the name of police, court, metoo movement and asked me to write a statement saying that I understand I have been alleged with sexual harassment charges and asked to apologise for the abuse thing. At that time, due to the way they were talking to me, I could not understand anything and did what they said.
This is a conspiracy to fire me as I never bowed down in front of this corrupt managers.
Please suggest what should I do.
My team members suggested to write an email with whatsapp screenshots about all this to the higher management from both team and HR end and include all the team members and ask the team about if they felt anything like that as they were there. Also, to ask for CCTV footage for that day.
A few team members are willing to respond on the email telling the truth which is against the female manager.
Is this the right way? Please suggest.