Lacking In Analytical Skills, Decision Making, Questioning

Respected Hrs
My self vamsi a graduate student as civil engineer, at present I am not bothered about job. But I am lacking of analytical skills,decision making,questioning etc., regarding in my subjects and also in my daily life.. I even don't know what are my likes,dislikes,weakness,strength. With out these things I can cannot reach my goal which IES at present I am preparing for it . I am not able to find where I am and frightened what happens in future if i am being like this . But one thing I observed myself is I can easily mingle and communicate with strangers,friends,relatives. Can any please suggest what else I could to do to improve my skills.......

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Vamsi,
Communication is a skill which many people lack.
People may have knowledge but communicating views,knowledge,opinions in friendly and pleasing manner is a skill which some have.
However I am pains to segregate communication from gift of the gab.
Communicating certain ideas will need knowledge of the concept/idea being discussed.There mere gift of the gab would not be enough,one would need knowledge of subject matter and related matters to win over others to your view point.
My advice would be increase your range of knowledge,be knowledgeable on your subject matter and then your good communication skills can help you.
The base on which your communication skill can work is ---Knowledge pure and simple.
You are a civil engineer so this example should be better appreciated: A tall building requires a strong base/foundation.
Similarly your communicative skill will reach heights if you have knowledge.