Hi Mpbehr,
You already have a few responses to your query.
I am now giving you a different response, you need to read this carefully and let me know if it makes sense to you.This advise was given to me by David Walkden, of Quality Skills Group.
Mentoring most of the time is listening to people, building two relationships, the first is a business relationship the second a personal relationship. You wear only one hat a and you make it clear which hat you are wearing, (if you know about the 7 hats then this will make sense). Having listened you repeat back your understanding and ask “ do you think I understand?”
Sometimes you can give advice immediately and get them to put it into practice immediately or agree a time frame. Or you may ask them to give you some time to provide all the options in writing.
Mentoring teaches life skills, interpersonal skills and business skills. All these must have solid foundations never of the cuff stuff. The mentor must appear to be a master in the subject.
You need to have a background in people management and be completely confidential and able to build confidence and to motivate the person you are mentoring.
Mentoring is not book knowledge but speaking from life experience.
Best regards,
Ronald