Hello Manish:
Well, that's a great question. I could probably write another book on that question, but I'll keep my reply short--less than 5 pages, anyway!
The skills to be a good trainer, in my opinion, differ somewhat from those required to be a good HR/OD Consultant.
Let's consider a trainer, first.
A good trainer is one that is not afraid to share information; one who does not "preach" at others, does not direct or manage, does not force information-- and one that is not afraid to share.
Many people could be good trainers, but they simply don't feel comfortable in the role. How can you tell if you'd be a good trainer? Ask yourself that question--are you comfortable sharing information with others?
Training is a role where definitive leadership skills must play a part; how you present yourself to the world can help distinguish if you have the skills to create a climate where others are drawn to you for your knowledge and expertise---you can, of course, have those skills and not be able to make the best use of them. You can also lack those skills, but learn techniques which allow you to maximize attributes of leadership.
My opinion is that the best trainers are those that share with others.
I've developed national sales programs for about a dozen companies here in the USA, and in each case, I developed their unique programs from a "sharing" perspective. Why? A variety of reasons. First and foremost, it's not confrontational, it's coming from a position that is easily accepted, and it connotes value to your position, no matter what position you hold. I've probably read 50% of the "selling skills" books in the marketplace--even some written by "experts" in their craft--and found them seriously lacking.
For you to have the most impact on learners as a trainer, you must create a climate where they are comfortable learning. In so doing, you ease aside the barriers to learning--and let's be honest--there are many barriers that a trainer has to minimize. I see them everyday when I do in-person seminars, and I hear them in voices and questions when I do webinars. When I come from a "sharing" perspective, however, many of them are reduced to simple questions that can be readily answered.
So I'd say, first, learn how to share with others.
Secondly, as a trainer, you must be able to communicate. Learn the best communication skills you can--whether they are written or oral. If what you say or write is not what the other person hears or reads, you've got a problem. No matter how skillful you are in your craft, no matter how much knowledge you have or how much experience you attain, you won't be able to share it with a learner. What good is knowledge to a trainer that can't be shared with a trainee?
Third--I'd say, focus on the needs of your learners. Ted Lapidus, in his book High Impact Training stated the obvious--and I'm paraphrasing here, but one of his key lessons was to learn who your audience is, and teach what they need.
So often, as trainers, we find that what we are teaching--although it's what the client requested--is not what the trainees need. I've stood in front of groups 60 minutes into a five hour presentation and thought to myself, "Why am I even talking about this? This group hasn't a clue where we're going and when they get there, they won't even recognize they've been there and left!" In every presentation now, I check the level of the audience. If the lowest level of the audience doesn't grasp the basics, I've lost them before I start. That's where the share concept comes into play. If you have to use it to bring a group to a level to accept what you're saying, you can do so.
Fourth, I'm a firm believer in the classical three step format; tell them what you're going to say, say it, then tell them what you just said. This works very well with the "share" concept...in that the trainees hear, they see, they aren't afraid to offer feedback, and they learn.
As to the skills to be a good HR/OD Consultant, let me simply itemize them.
1) Be willing to listen to anyone, anywhere, anytime.
2) Be willing to look at the macro-environment and gain knowledge as a function of your examination of the world around you.
3) Understand that every participant in a discussion has a vested interest in the outcome of the discussion.
4) Always look at the positive attributes of the people involved in any issue; recognize it takes two to develop an argument; two can negotiate but roles must be defined.
5) Find strengths where others find weaknesses.
6) Involve as many as possible in decision-making processes because very few have ever lost their jobs over consensus decisions.
7) Keep your own counsel about issues you feel strongly about; your attitudes and outlook may or may not be positive factors in conflict resolution or development opportunities.
8) Listen more than you talk. Let others talk more than you. Learn from the mistakes of others.
9) Be pleasant to others. Smile frequently, even if the situation doesn't always demand it.
10) Never stop learning. Recognize that you can learn as much or more from the actions, directions, responses and attributes of others than you know now. Why not take advantage of the benefit of learning?
Manish, I hope that is helpful to you. Good luck in your quest.
Alan Guinn, Managing Director
GCG Worldwide