dear anita, may i ask you what formed the basis of your post?what proof you have if any and what is the source??kindly allow me to bring out some home trths regarding the matter.I happened to read comments about this wonderful person just now.everyone has a right to opine, but no one has the right to assume and opine especially in a bad light about another person.i was married to this selfish mean and cunning person till 2002.I kept quiet all these years because i was busy picking up the shreds of my life which he had torn to pieces and make something of it.i was still doing my MBBS when he stood on one leg to get married to me.He was driven to my home by his father;he was sitting in the front seat sandwiched between his parents; and he was not interested in talking to me.He very sweetly offered his help in official capacity to my father if needed.my father thanked him and politely
refused.I was not particularly interested in this marriage for obvious reasons;i wanted a loving and caring husband period.But then his parents
came and literally fell at my parents feet and the inevitable happened.after that he ignored me so much i often used to wonder why he ever married me.
It became clear that he was using me, he wanted to marry a kottayam girl in kottayam when he was the sub collector there;just to get coverage there,
and he chose the day too;when all the top politicians would be there in town so they could come for this too.On that day the then chief minister
jokingly warned me about this man and it came out to be so true...
Within a few days after marriage, he demolished my father's property wall which had been previously reconstructed lawfully under police supervision following its unlawful demolition by local goons.let me ask you all; how many of you would allow a pathway through your property just because some lazy bums want to just cut across through it from one road to another rather than
walking around it in the normal round about way??that property is there in the family for the last 2 generations and my father has not taken
anybody's property forget the government's.we have sufficient proof including the survey dated 60years back.This moron supposedly took the drastic step based upon a mass petition and his enquiry report on it.I had to attend college face everyone's questions and not to mention the hellish life
with inlaws...i was not allowed to talk to my parents or go to my home.
after this episode i encouraged my mentally broken father to go to court.
My father was not down because the wall was demolished but because the new son in law did that cunningly and 'unlawfully' behind our back just to get
publicity.The 'martyr'got transferred in the mean time;and my father had to get copies of documents from the subregistrar's office for the court case.
he was shocked to see that the date on the order for enquiry report on the mass petition and the report were well after the incident;months after he
got transferred from the place!!!he had forged this document;done it at atime when he had no authority to do so ie unlawfully!!.My father lodged a criminal case too upon my insistence.I was with my father not because he brought me up but because he deserved justice and needed
my support.Anyways the cunning fellow senthis parents for a compromise to save his face and his job.As per the elders' advice i too agreed;no one in
the right frame of mind get married just to divorce.I wanted to give it a try for what it was worth.But after the cases were withdrawn he never came
home.I was with his parents hoping for him to come.One fine day he gave interview saying that he had divorced me and my father broke the marriage when i was still legally married to him.That was enough for me and i finally went for a divorce.Lot of people tried for a compromise including the family court judge;but he was not willing.I pulled myself together did my post graduation and fellowship through merit.I had wasted precious years of my lifehoping that this poor example of a man would improve..I only know how difficult that period of my life was, i had to face the gossip, i had no strength to open up against people like you who support this cunning fellow blindly.I came out of it by God's grace.and I was practising my professiontill my childbirth after my second marriage to a very loving and caring person.God is there so I got a loving husband to compensate for all i went through.At least now my parents are able to sleep peacefully without tears in their eyes caused by thoughts about my future.They aged fadt and became weak before my eyes burdened with untold sorrow.some of you may have sisters and daughters;how will you feel and react if this happens to them? would you still applaud the moron's academic brilliance?what is the use of any education if it fais to have impact and improve one's character??
let me ask you how long can anyone live in the past??1st rank 10th and pre degree and IAS agreed but 1st rank iit entrance and final.. bullshit.
his parents by their own proud admission to me used to go and stay with him in iit to help with studies.he has attended school only to write exams.
and he cheated in the practicals.his parents used to help with files and his ' literary works' when i was there.and by the way what has
academic brilliance got to do with character?? let me answer that.. nothing at all.and that man is a big big zero in character.
are nt there any other honest officers other than him?? why nothing comes out about them??He is arrogant to aal except politicians (he licks their feet,i was witness) and so called journalists who publish what he pukes.
i have often asked my father why he keeps quiet to all these lies and his reply was he would not reply to the barks of stray dog he had better things to do.But now the barking has strated to be bothersome hence this post.if it does not quieten i will go legally with proof to make sure the mouth stays closed.In 2006 this moron gave an interview and his mother had approached my parents for a reunion saying that he was willing to 'talk' to me and he would commit suicide without me. my mother replied that if a reunion happens then her daughter(i) would commit suicide:)..
and for the record my father is not that moron's father in law.so to all the people out there if something sounds too good to be true it might not be true after all.if any of you has doubt and need proof for this i am ready to oblige.
refused.I was not particularly interested in this marriage for obvious reasons;i wanted a loving and caring husband period.But then his parents
came and literally fell at my parents feet and the inevitable happened.after that he ignored me so much i often used to wonder why he ever married me.
It became clear that he was using me, he wanted to marry a kottayam girl in kottayam when he was the sub collector there;just to get coverage there,
and he chose the day too;when all the top politicians would be there in town so they could come for this too.On that day the then chief minister
jokingly warned me about this man and it came out to be so true...
Within a few days after marriage, he demolished my father's property wall which had been previously reconstructed lawfully under police supervision following its unlawful demolition by local goons.let me ask you all; how many of you would allow a pathway through your property just because some lazy bums want to just cut across through it from one road to another rather than
walking around it in the normal round about way??that property is there in the family for the last 2 generations and my father has not taken
anybody's property forget the government's.we have sufficient proof including the survey dated 60years back.This moron supposedly took the drastic step based upon a mass petition and his enquiry report on it.I had to attend college face everyone's questions and not to mention the hellish life
with inlaws...i was not allowed to talk to my parents or go to my home.
after this episode i encouraged my mentally broken father to go to court.
My father was not down because the wall was demolished but because the new son in law did that cunningly and 'unlawfully' behind our back just to get
publicity.The 'martyr'got transferred in the mean time;and my father had to get copies of documents from the subregistrar's office for the court case.
he was shocked to see that the date on the order for enquiry report on the mass petition and the report were well after the incident;months after he
got transferred from the place!!!he had forged this document;done it at atime when he had no authority to do so ie unlawfully!!.My father lodged a criminal case too upon my insistence.I was with my father not because he brought me up but because he deserved justice and needed
my support.Anyways the cunning fellow senthis parents for a compromise to save his face and his job.As per the elders' advice i too agreed;no one in
the right frame of mind get married just to divorce.I wanted to give it a try for what it was worth.But after the cases were withdrawn he never came
home.I was with his parents hoping for him to come.One fine day he gave interview saying that he had divorced me and my father broke the marriage when i was still legally married to him.That was enough for me and i finally went for a divorce.Lot of people tried for a compromise including the family court judge;but he was not willing.I pulled myself together did my post graduation and fellowship through merit.I had wasted precious years of my lifehoping that this poor example of a man would improve..I only know how difficult that period of my life was, i had to face the gossip, i had no strength to open up against people like you who support this cunning fellow blindly.I came out of it by God's grace.and I was practising my professiontill my childbirth after my second marriage to a very loving and caring person.God is there so I got a loving husband to compensate for all i went through.At least now my parents are able to sleep peacefully without tears in their eyes caused by thoughts about my future.They aged fadt and became weak before my eyes burdened with untold sorrow.some of you may have sisters and daughters;how will you feel and react if this happens to them? would you still applaud the moron's academic brilliance?what is the use of any education if it fais to have impact and improve one's character??
let me ask you how long can anyone live in the past??1st rank 10th and pre degree and IAS agreed but 1st rank iit entrance and final.. bullshit.
his parents by their own proud admission to me used to go and stay with him in iit to help with studies.he has attended school only to write exams.
and he cheated in the practicals.his parents used to help with files and his ' literary works' when i was there.and by the way what has
academic brilliance got to do with character?? let me answer that.. nothing at all.and that man is a big big zero in character.
are nt there any other honest officers other than him?? why nothing comes out about them??He is arrogant to aal except politicians (he licks their feet,i was witness) and so called journalists who publish what he pukes.
i have often asked my father why he keeps quiet to all these lies and his reply was he would not reply to the barks of stray dog he had better things to do.But now the barking has strated to be bothersome hence this post.if it does not quieten i will go legally with proof to make sure the mouth stays closed.In 2006 this moron gave an interview and his mother had approached my parents for a reunion saying that he was willing to 'talk' to me and he would commit suicide without me. my mother replied that if a reunion happens then her daughter(i) would commit suicide:)..
and for the record my father is not that moron's father in law.so to all the people out there if something sounds too good to be true it might not be true after all.if any of you has doubt and need proof for this i am ready to oblige.