Hi Ankita
There are no quick fixes to become self motivated. It is an entirely personal outcome of an individuals attitudes, beliefs and upbringing among other factors. However there are certain steps that one can consciously take in order to become self motivated. Some of these points have been expresses by Dev above but I will still take the liberty of elucidating a few pointers.
1. Have the right attitude - being positive at all times is the key. In addition one must be prepared to tackle obstacles with out getting disheartened, face opposition without being cowed down, be realistic and throw in the towel if the glaring situation warrants it.
2. Define success and goals - the whole objective of being self motivated is to achieve success by achieving your goals. The presumption here is that both the goal and the path to success are clearly identified.E.g. An underworld DON would have ammasing power and money as a goal and the path to success is through ruthlessness. Most of us would find this a very repulsive idea. On the other hand a Godman would seek to be self motivated in order to bring salvation to the multitude. This goal too seems unappealing to the average man on the street.
3. Align your passion and your future - Nothing is as self motivating as indulging in your passion. The reason is when following your passion, the urge is from within and this intrinsic motivation cannot be substituted by any extrinsic consideration. E.g. You are a trained musician but you are well aware that you do not have the flair to be a successful professional. You can explore other possibilities like being a part of a musical troupe or being a music teacher or a music critic or a music concert organizer etc.
4. Make it fun - it is only when one has fun does one freely indulge and remain self motivated. Keep focusing on the progress that one is making and that makes the process enjoyable. Keep in the company of those who encourage, support and enjoy working with you.Learn to laugh at yourself and the little goofy moments at work.
5. Dont chase success; let it come to you. - the little surprises you get be it a gift or a windfall or a an unexpected compliment always makes one thrilled and delighted. The same principle works excellently in life as well. The moment we narrow our focus to achieving things at any cost, the self motivation is replaced by greed, jealousy, pride and other such negative emotions. On the other hand diligent effort, smart work and team effort are traits that trigger self motivation within.
Trust these points would help you remain self motivated at all times
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