Dear Kanchan,
You write really well. Especially for an Indian. Because, the truth is that most of us write horribly (even though we will never admit it). I am truly impressed by the composition, clarity of thought, use of grammar, paragraph construction and a 99.95% lack of spelling errors. Why do I highlight this even though it has literally nothing to do with the topic of your thread? Because, if you write so well, I would like to believe that you are organised and relatively 'clutter free' in your life in general. It may sound absurd, but, there is tonnes of research that links people's writing to their general outlook to life! So, congratulations! You're more than 50% of way to your goal - of documenting the training process! Congratulations once again! (This is where you pat yourself on the back, or, ask a friend or your husband to do it for you - really! I mean it!)
Kanchan, I've read your reply. Very informative. My diagnosis is that there are a lot of dynamics at play at your workplace - as one should expect at any place where 2 or more people congregate for a lengthy period of time each day for most days of the week.
Reading your last post, I don't think you're too challenged to prepare your assignment document. Again, refer to my opening paragraph. I believe that your challenge will be the manner in which you navigate through the labyrinth of 'office politics' and other similar and wonderful events at the bank, and reach your destination with a value add (as your supervisor has asked you to enunciate).
There are a number of do's and dont's that myself or any senior person can advise you. However, you won't register a lot. Not because you are silly or anything similar. Rather, because our advise will be more of a 'risk mitigation strategy'. However, and unfortunately, the bulk of risks we'll talk about will not seem real to you. Why? Simple. Because they haven't happened yet. So, you can't relate to them. Thus, instead of offering all the do's and dont's, my suggestion is as follows:
1. You need to go through your 'life experiences' as an intern and grow at your own pace and in your own style. And, once you've done this for a few months, those around you will start to see a different you.
2. The single worst thing you can do is to throw in the towel. I know that reading this point you're saying that you'll never do it. And, if you're truly saying it, then I am really glad. However, this point is not for the Kanchan reading this reply when the times are good. Its for the Kanchan who will one day return home dejected and upset because her boss was rude to her etc...
3. You will make mistakes. You have to. That's all there is to it. And, when you do make those mistakes, remember that you're neither the first nor the last to make that mistake/s. However, what you want to do in that circumstance, is to do all that you have to and understand what really went wrong and how it should have been. Then, you have to commit to yourself that from that point on, that mistake will not happen again. Also, remember that when we make mistakes as interns, it is a thousand times worse than when we make those same mistakes as employees. Why? Because as interns we have energy, passion, enthusiasm, a sense of infallibility, a deep desire to impress, a huge need to be 'accepted' and made to feel 'wanted' etc... And, when we make mistakes, we become our own worst enemy. Why? Because we believe that we've let people down. So, do what I've suggested earlier in this point. Learn and move on! Simple!
4. This is the most important point - have fun each day. Make each day your best learning experience yet! Remember, as an intern there is only one entity for whom you're making this huge investment - YOU! So, make sure that you look after that precious investment.
Now, in relation to your assignment, I am making you an offer.
Send me the document you've already prepared. Then, continue preparing it as you're doing it each day. And, when you're a couple of weeks out from submitting it, send me your last draft. Here is what I will do. In the first document you send me, I will make sure that you're on the right track and you're covering some critical aspects of any training process. I will send this document once I am done reviewing it. In relation to your final document, I will do the same but also offer you some tips and advice on how to make your document 'saleable'. Remember, in your entire work life, any document you prepare has to be 2 things - factual (or informational) and saleable. But, what I will not do, is write it for you. Not because I can't, but rather because it will be grossly unfair to both - you and your organisation.
So, another lengthy reply later, you have fun and if you can identify with any of what I've written here, let me know and we'll take it further. Also, in case you don't want to continue using this forum to communicate with me, please feel free to email me at [Login to view]
And, like always - Take Care & Have Fun!