When It Breaks It Hurts

suman84


Why does it hurt so much?

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Love hurts so much because we allow it to hurt. It's human nature. Getting hurt is a part of life. It's how you handle the hurt or how you allow it to affect you. When two people are in a relationship there are good times and bad times being in a relationship is a great feeling.

Knowing that you have a person that loves you is such a wonderful thing. But sometimes people put to much faith in other people and then when that person doesn't live up to the other person's expectations then there are a huge amount of disappointment and hurt. Why do we allow other people to control our emotions?

A broken heart really is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you find out somebody that you love, somebody that you gave such a huge part of yourself to betrayed you, is indescribable. You feel this pain in the middle of your chest and it literally just aches. It hurts oh so bad! And then the tears and crying set in. opinion you do need to allow yourself to grieve. You need to accept everything that has happened and then you just need to look inside yourself to find the courage and strength needed to move on. This is so much easier said than done. It is a part of life. One thing we have to learn is when one door closes three more usually open.




Everything happens for a reason. You must be strong and simply commit to yourself.:(:(:(:(

manoj.bharti
Good thoughts Suman...
One more thought is there, It someone can not recognise you it is his/her problem...
That means he/she doen't deserve you..... Why to get hurt then...
suman84
Thanx RJ, deepika nd manoj well said

Arj hai:
"sazaa dene waale razaa puchte hai
jine ki humse vajah puchte hai
dete hai khud hi zehar humko aksar
phir kitna hua hai asar puchte hai"
manoj.bharti
Wah.. Wah..
Woh Youn toh Idhar se Gujarte nahin hai...
JO gujre toh Kiska hai Ghar poochte hain...
Koi hamse kahde kya unko kahein hum..
Jo apne hi ghar ka Pata Poochte hain...
suman84
Aaj Shayari ke mood mey hu..........

Pyar Karke Chot Dil Ko Tumne Diye To Hai, Ab Is Tute Dil Ko Tumhari Bewafai Kaise Kahu?
Hum To Kar Lenge Umar Bhar Intezaar Tumhara Is Dil Ko Ek Bewafa Ka Intezaar Karne Ko Kaise Kahu?
Keh To Diya Mere Band Hotho Ne Sab Kuchab In Bheegi Palko Se Tumhe Kaise Kahu?
Din Raat Mujhe Teri Yaad Aksar Rulati Hai teri Yaad Ko Fir Naa Aane Ko Kaise Kahu?
suman84
Very well said Mali dear..............nd RJ kyu humari jodi to banegi afterall we r gud friends..............:-P
manoj.bharti
Great mood... good going..
here's some more..
"Bewafai nahin thee, woh majbooriyan thee..
Woh Sachchi nahin thee, woh Jo dooriyaan thee..
Diya hota kehne ka mouka jo tumne...
Bata dete pate hum bhi, kya majbooriyan thee.."
suman84
Nice addition Mali dear........
"Jab Raat hui Sham ke baad...
Teri yaad Aayi har baat ke baad..
Maine khamosh Rehkar bhi dekha..
Teri awaaz Aayi Meri Har saans ke baad..
"
1982.deepika@gmail.com
If you love something, let it go. If it comes back to you, its yours forever. If it dosent, then it was never meant to be.
maliniluky
FARQ SIRF ITNA SA THA...................
Teri doli uthi,
Meri mayyat uthi,
Phool tujh par bhi barse,
Phool mujh par bhi barse,
FARQ SIRF ITNA SA THA,
Tu saj gayi,
Mujhe sajaya gaya ,
Tu bhi ghar ko chali,
Main bi ghar ko chala,
FARQ SIRF ITNA SA THA,
Tu uth ke gayi,
Mujhe uthaya gaya ,
Mehfil wahan bhi thi,
Log yahan bhi the,
FARQ SIRF ITNA SA THA,
Unka hasna wahan,
Inka rona yahan,
Qazi udhar bhi tha, Molvi idhar bhi tha,
Do bol tere pade, Do bol mere pade,
Tera nikah pada, Mera janaaza pada,
FARQ SIRF ITNA SA THA,
Tujhe apnaya gaya ,
Mujhe dafnaya gaya
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