Hi Mamta,
I was going through all the post in this forum. You were quite honest on your points. Seniors gave their suggestions and thats absolutely holds true.
I would also like to add something in here. Though I am also fresher like you. I also changed 3 companies in very small time.
I was selected in one of the leading IT company through campus placement. I joined that company as i didnt wanted to sit jobless after education. I applied for the Job in one of the core companies and left the IT company in 23 days.
In another company, after joining I found that company very unprofessional. In the mean time, I got a call from the other company which is very well known. I got selected over there also. Interviewr asked me a question that u left first company in 23 days, u are doing a job in so n so company from 1 month. How can I trust you that you will not leave my company in short period and how long you will continue. I replied
"As long as I am satisfied with the company I will continue to work. What matters is Job satisfaction. Its in terms of the work I do, the responsibilities I get, the respect I get, Money and overall environment. So as far as leaving your compnay concerns, it all depends on the company." Now I have recently completed a year with that company and still working there happily.
What I am trying to say is, there are many companies and recruiters that freshers tend to leave the job for betterment. What ever may be the reason for leaving the job.
As a yougster, we have to think good and positive and fight for that.
As far as getting the new job is concern, I am sure you will get it and u will get the better job. However, you have to make a correct decision to join the firm. Dont join any firm because you are jobless now. Wait untill you get a job which suits all your requirements. I know its tough to get ideal jobs as ideal jobs doesnt exists in this world. Remember "To survive in the society. You cant change society. you will have to change yourself."
We have to be mentally tough to deal with all kind of people. You cant expect every one to take care of you. Actually, even I had a guy working with me like you mentioned "Bad Boss". He never explained me and left me do the work when I was new. He harassed me a lot. He told me lot of tings. he abused me. Every one in this organisation is fed up with him. But, after some time, I realised that, its his way of behaving. His way of working. his way of commuicating. And it worked, I learned the things with my own and now I dont go to anyone for any help. I take more time but do it with my own. Now I like that guy. Though, his behaviour is still the same.
Here I am trying to say "You have to give time to every one before comming to the conclusion that , he is a good boss or bad boss."
I would add something more to it:
Try to ignore people whom u dont like.
I am sure you must have some hobbies, njoy that.
Do the things which you like. That will make you feel relaxed and njoy ur work also.
If you dont have boyfriend, have one. But make sure he is a positive thinker. Some times, boyfriend or girl friend is required to make you feel positive.
Now its enough for me, my fingers are tired now.
Best Regards,