Thanks - I can only say I am usually forceful in putting forth my point. I have never said you are wrong. I later realized I have been sharp in my replies and sometimes may have commented personally. Don't take this as a judgment on you, just my view on HR practices which may not be suitable in every industry. I'm also sorry as I think some comments have been critical, which I regret now. I know I can't say I have been as humble as you in replying, keeping in mind gender differences. Thanks for the healthy discussion and as to HR practices, I can say we will make a great team - you being soft and stubborn, and I being unapologetic (good cop, bad cop) - jokes apart, it was my pleasure to hear widely different radical views. Let's keep sharing views despite differences.