Dear Meenu,
I feel the answer to ur qn lies with u only. Its upto every individual to KNOW what S/he should be wearing where. Instead of going by led down rules & then following/breaking them we should ask our own conscious as to what should we do ? I am a doctor from India-a democratic country and no one can stop me from entering my operation theatre in a bermuda/dungaree, as my treatment towards my patient is NOT going to change,on the contrary I may be more comfortable in these clothes YET I shall be fully clothed bcos I have to discipline myself in wearing these to a beach and NOT to my OT.
why can't we accept our goddesses then in bikinis? Even my this statement here will invoke angry responses. We do NOt eat in the toilet do we? Will you allow ur house maid to come to work at ur house in open choli-knee length sari?(this dress is common with adivasis its their normal dress)
We as a society have accepted certain norms and they are always good in the end-Like watching a fully clothed bride with ornaments et all in a wedding ! I hope I have made my point.
So do NOT wait to follow office dress code diktats,instead make your OWN diktats and follow them.That way U,ur family,Ur clients AND ur office all will be Happy!-Dr.VSRege