Hatts off Pradepa for this article. Each and every point is true. I am a victim of this. Married 6 years ago to a guy who convinced me that he will love me to death.
I am working in a top MNC. After 1 year of marriage he started the same thing you discussed above. Point to point, the same way. I was shocked when I read this article, that there are so many victims like me.
But it took 3 years for me to realize what has happened to me, by the time which I had 3 months baby in my hands.
He flirted flirted flirted without any pity, respect or love for me and my baby. Since he is in interview panel, he would recruit the girl he likes. It is devastating to think how he could sleep with so many of them and spoling my life.
Its been 3 years that i got seperated. I walked out because I was becoming vulnerable crying for his love and honestness. I preferred to lead single with my son with dignity rather than living with him in humility.
I left the deviscion yo God. I attempted suicide but failed. else I would also have been in news as a victim of this trend of infedility among software industry couples.
I have one question to those girls. Why do you play with others marriages. It is a divine affair and once in a life time affair. People like me may be blessed with courage to stand up and live single and dignified. But do you know what we miss every second? The other half of us and the biological parent of our children.